No one is perfect in this world, it is a fact. But when we fall in love, we think we have found the ideal partner who embodies all that is good, beautiful and perfect. However, after a while some people may begin to have doubts as to whether they have chosen the right person!
If you are ever wondering if you have chosen the ideal partner, here are 10 questions to ask yourself. Is your hubby doing all this? This is probably a sign that you are living with "the one"!
1. He is not afraid of difficulties and is ready to solve all problems.
A real man not only says nice words but also takes action. In difficult situations, he is always ready to give you a shoulder to cry on.
2. He can cook his own meals!
And this, without leaving all the dirty dishes all over the kitchen! For many, a man who knows how to cook is really attractive. And it doesn't necessarily have to be something special or some fancy meals. Even if he just slices fruits or makes a grilled-cheese and puts it nicely on a serving plate, it will please his tender half!
3. He will always support you, even if you make mistakes.
We all make mistakes and when this happens your partner should always be on your side. Even if you are wrong. In all situations, your spouse should support you rather than blame you.
4. He pays attention to details.
This does not mean that your man should know all the details of your life or remember what you wore on the day of your meeting. But he should know important things that matter to you. But little things too, like how much sugar you put in your coffee and what your favorite song is. :-)
5. He is wise, not just intelligent.
It might be helpful to have someone around who can explain quantum physics, but it is more important to have a man who can find a way out of ordinary life problems. If your man is able to give you good advice when you are fighting with your mother, then you are very lucky!
6. He knows how to cheer you up.
When you feel sad, your man always knows how to get you back on track: he will tell a good joke, support you or do other things that will make you feel better.
7. He knows how to compromise and negotiate.
An ideal man can find a common language with the police, plumbers or women who cry. He can even manage a bad neighbor!
8. He does not forget your problems immediately after leaving the house.
Men tend to find it difficult to focus on more than one task at a time. But a loving person always makes your problems a priority and never puts them on the back burner.
9. Your opinion is important to him.
The relationship between spouses must not only concern living together. Partners must also become friends and respect each other. Learning to make decisions together is a crucial part of a happy and healthy union.
10. He helps with household chores
If your spouse appreciates and respects you, he will never let you feel like his housekeeper. He understands that you get tired at work and is therefore always ready to help clean the house. In addition, doing household chores together is a great way to speed up work and spend time with your partner doing other stuff.
Each person has their own idea of the perfect relationship. And the qualities that make a man an ideal partner might differ for everyone. But finding someone who puts you first and whom you can put first is one of the keys to a working and happy union.
So? Does your life partner have any of these 10 characteristic?
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